April 20, 2016

Maid Of Honor Survival Guide

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Survival Tip No. 1: Take Time For Yourself

One of the most important jobs for a maid of honor is to get the bride to the church on time. But before the big day, you will be bombarded with various time commitments of your own associated with helping the bride and managing the wedding party. From dress fittings to cake tastings, bridal party celebrations, hairdos and flower arrangements, you will be expected to, and should plan for, spending hours engulfed in wedding planning.


To survive late-night phone calls and texts from the bride, diplomatically answering questions about dress choices from the bridesmaids, and keeping the mothers of the bride and groom at ease, it’s important for the maid of honor to regularly schedule time away from the overflowing to-do lists, wedding planning and bride consultations.


Survival Tip No. 2: Be the Referee of the Party

Open communication is key to any strong friendship, but especially when you are the maid of honor in your friend’s wedding. In Keaveney’s experience, the maid of honor can’t be afraid to tell the bride what is working and what isn’t. It also is important to keep all of the bridesmaids on the same page by reaching out to them on a consistent basis so that everyone stays in the loop.


Survival Tip No. 3: Keep It Fun

Brides and maids of honor both agree that it’s important to keep the atmosphere of the pre-wedding festivities as fun as possible. In Keaveney’s first maid of honor experience, she successfully mixed a fun girls’ night out dancing with relaxing next-day bridal party massages that everyone enjoyed.



Survival Tip No. 4: Keep Everyone Calm….Including Yourself!

For the majority of the wedding, the maid of honor is the behind-the-scenes queen who takes care of all the little and big details. Your big public debut, though, is when all eyes are on you during the maid of honor speech. To make sure your speech is delivered with ease and grace, speak from the heart and practice the main parts of your speech beforehand.  When you’re in the moment, don’t be afraid to go off script, as the best speeches are heartfelt and authentic. Just try not to cry through the entire speech – save the tears until after you fulfill your maid of honor duties.


Survival Tip No. 5: Budget..Budget…BUDGET!

Weddings are not only a lot of work for everyone involved; they also can be an expensive commitment for the maid of honor. From dresses, shoes, make up and hairdos to hotel accommodations, parties and bride gifts along the way, the cost of being in a wedding can add up quickly. To help keep your finances in check during the wedding season, sit down with your bride-to-be early on in the engagement to discuss the financial expectations of the maid of honor and your budget limitations.


Survival Tip No. 6: Expect the Unexpected

Every wedding will have its own unique twists and turns – whether it’s a complete bride meltdown right before the ceremony or groomsmen showing up at the wedding venue without the pants to their tuxes. Maids of honor have to be quick on their toes and a step ahead of everyone else. You also have to be flexible and willing to fulfill even the most bizarre bride and groom requests.

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April 20, 2016